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Question: Would it be sinful to use “kill me” as an expression (not out of anger, let’s say someone’s doing a really hard workout and use it as an expression to say “this is really hard”, or “make it stop”, etc.)?

Profile: Male, North America, Under 19

Answered by: Mark Scally, who has been serving on our Q&A Answer Team since May 2023

Answer: Hello and thanks for sending in this question.

Using the expression “kill me” in a casual way can be seen as inappropriate from a biblical standpoint, even if it’s not meant out of anger. The Bible emphasizes the power of words and the importance of speaking in a way that builds others up and reflects God’s love and respect.

Proverbs 18:21 states, “The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.” This highlights the significant impact our words can have. Ephesians 4:29 advises, “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” Similarly, Colossians 4:6 says, “Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.” Using expressions that involve harm or death might not align with this.

Additionally, Romans 14:5 reminds us that people have different perspectives and convictions: “One person considers one day more sacred than another; another considers every day alike. Each of them should be fully convinced in their own mind.” This suggests that what might be acceptable for one person could be sinful for another. I cannot say 100 percent that using the phrase is sinful for you; you must be fully convinced in your heart that it is not a sin for you based on your relationship and understanding of Him.

In summary, while using the expression might not be sinful in itself, it is wise to be mindful of its impact and choose words that reflect the biblical principles of love, respect, and encouragement.

I hope this helps!