I dont really ever ask but I am stuck with a recent enquiry. I am looking for some guidance how to best deal with a young christian who appears to have ‘secretly’ married his childhood sweetheart because the state law says that marriage is only considered legal from 18 onwards. He states that he and his girl looked long and hard into the bible seeking whether they should do this or not but felt that the law was unjust and so decided to go ahead and marry, despite what the law says.Now, I could be totally blunt and uncharitable and rebuke him and that he needs to read Romans 13 but have already asked him why he got married, despite what the laws of the state say. I feel I have lots of things to point out to show his error but dont want to seem to be over critical or harsh. I feel for him because I fell into similar mischief – its a well know case of ‘heart ruling the head’ here – I cant really point the finger but it would also be wrong to say nothing. Wisdom is what I need ! Thanks.